Becoming
"You don't need to get over him.
You need to get to yourself."
"I spent two years in counseling trying to heal. In two months of walking with Christina I experienced the breakthroughs I had been praying for. Not because therapy failed me. But because this time I wasn't just processing the pain. I was releasing it. She's lived this. She doesn't talk at you. She walks with you through it."
— Kingdom Lounge MemberI see exactly where
you are right now.
You loved with everything you had. And right now, that love feels like the very thing that has you undone.
Does any of this sound like you?
"It's 2am and I'm still replaying every conversation, every text, every moment trying to figure out where it all went wrong."
"I've been strong for everyone around me. Nobody knows I'm falling apart every time I'm alone."
"I've prayed. I've fasted. I've journaled. And I still reach for my phone hoping it's him."
"I don't even recognize myself anymore. I lost who I was somewhere inside of that relationship."
"Some days I want him back. Some days I just want peace. Most days I don't even know what to pray for."
"I know God has something for me on the other side of this. I just can't see past the pain right now."
If even one of those stopped you, this was written for you.
You think you want him back.
What you actually want
is your peace.
What's happening to you right now, the breaking, the unraveling, the not knowing who you are without him, that is not the end of your story. That is the sound of something being built. And I want to walk you through it.
Becoming is the private 30-day container that walks you all the way through heartbreak and out the other side as the woman you were always created to be. Not just healed. Not just "over it." Whole.
"Therapists told me I needed to love myself. Christina showed me how to actually do it. Counselors wanted me to move on. She helped me understand why I was stuck. She doesn't pathologize love. She gets it. She speaks truth and helps you heal inside of it."
— Kingdom Lounge Member"I think I am finally learning how to surrender to the process and not fight it. I feel so much more at peace navigating through this, being led by the Spirit instead of trying to do things in my own strength. What God is doing here is bigger than healing from heartbreak."
— Kingdom Lounge MemberYou will not be walking
through this alone.
This is not a course. There are no modules to binge and forget. This is a private, hands-on, Spirit-led container built entirely around you. Every part of it was designed so that when things come up, and they will come up, you have somewhere to bring it.
We start with an opening call where I meet you exactly where you are. Not where you think you should be. Right where you are. From there I get clear on what's coming up for you specifically so every call after that is built around your situation. A mid-point call to work through what's been surfacing. And a closing call that marks the moment. Who you are now. What you've shed. What you're stepping into. These aren't generic coaching calls. They are Spirit-led conversations designed around you.
Value: $750Every weekday for 30 days you have direct access to me. When the 2am thoughts come. When you're about to make a decision from a broken place. When something surfaces between our calls and you need someone who actually understands what you're carrying. You have somewhere to bring it. This is where the real work happens.
Value: $600For the entire 30 days you'll have complete access to Kingdom Lounge Premium. You'll be held by a community of women who understand exactly what you're walking through, surrounded by teaching and content that speaks directly to your season, and supported even in the moments between our calls. You are not doing this alone.
Value: $97/monthReady to stop going through this alone?
Yes, I'm Ready — Join Becoming for $997Only 3 founding spots available
By day 31,
everything shifts.
This is what becomes possible when you stop waiting for him to make you whole and decide to walk through instead of around.
- You wake up with a peace that has nothing to do with whether he texted
- You know who you are outside of the relationship and you are not afraid of her
- You have clarity about your person and your path that no longer keeps you up at night
- You stopped agreeing with the lies and started speaking life over yourself
- You hear from God again because you learned to sit in the quiet and receive
- You are the main character of your own life, not the supporting role in someone else's
- Joy belongs to you now, not something you're waiting for someone else to give you
- You are grounded, settled, and fully ready for whatever comes next
Every week
has a purpose.
You're not just moving through time. You're moving through a designed journey. Each week is built around what naturally surfaces when a woman is walking through heartbreak so you never feel lost inside of it.
No bypassing. No performing "I'm fine." This week you are given full permission to grieve in a safe, held, private container. Everything that's been living in your chest gets to come out. What you've been carrying alone finally has somewhere to land.
What is actually coming up beneath the surface? We go deeper than the heartbreak, into the identity wounds, the old agreements about your worth, the patterns you've been living inside of for years. This is where real healing begins. Not the surface pain, but the root of it.
You release what was never yours to carry. The shame. The agreements you made in the dark about who you are and what you deserve. Week three is about coming out of agreement with every lie heartbreak has spoken over your identity and choosing truth instead.
You meet the woman who has been waiting on the other side of all of this. Grounded. Clear. Peaceful. Whole. By the end of week four you are not the same woman who walked in and you know it.
Hi, I'm Christina.
I didn't teach this.
I lived it.
When my own heartbreak hit, I had a choice. Wait for the pain to pass, or become. God told me His daughters needed me. So in the middle of the hurt, I started. I launched a challenge. I showed up. And in that season I built The Kingdom Lounge from nothing into a community of over 4,000 sisters. I grew to over 16,000 followers on TikTok. I did all of it while quietly walking through my own breaking point.
What I discovered in that season wasn't just healing. It was the Holy Spirit walking me through every single moment. When to speak. When to be still. When to forgive. When to stay. When to let go. Every step was led. Every step built me into exactly who I needed to be.
That is the exact journey I am going to walk you through. Not theory. Not a program I created from research. A Spirit-led, deeply personal 30 days that mirrors the same path I walked myself. And it changed everything.
This container is built
around your becoming.
Everything inside Becoming is designed with one thing in mind: that by the time you walk out on day 31, you are not the same woman who walked in. You will be partnering with God daily, learning to hear yourself again, and coming out of agreement with every lie that heartbreak has tried to speak over your identity. This is not passive. This is a 30-day commitment to yourself. And I will be right there with you through every single step of it.
Let's make sure Becoming
is your next step.
This is for you if...
- You are in the middle of heartbreak and you need real, private support, not generic advice
- You are ready to do the actual work, not just talk about healing
- Your faith is important to you and you want to walk through this season led by the Holy Spirit
- You are tired of performing okay while privately falling apart
- You want clarity about yourself, your person, and your path forward
- Something in you knows there is more on the other side of this and you are ready to go get it
This is not for you if...
- You are looking for someone to tell you how to get him back
- You are not willing to show up fully and consistently for 30 days
- You want to passively consume content without doing the inner work
- You are not open to a faith-based, Holy Spirit-led approach
- You are not ready to take responsibility for your own wholeness
Real women.
Real transformation.
From the Kingdom Lounge community, women who have been walked through heartbreak, identity wounds, and the journey back to themselves.
"I had a whole two-hour session with Christina and I was amazed at how the layers were pulled back. The space she creates is not overpowering. The questions make you really sit with intention and think. I almost called out of work just to go through it again. Much needed space."
— Shikesha F., Kingdom Lounge Member"This was deep and eye opening and it almost felt like I was re-birthed. I've been cheating myself for years. It's life changing. Can't nobody love or do me like my Father God."
— Tanee H., Kingdom Lounge Member"Over five days God didn't just meet me. He delivered me softly. Not through shouting, but through truth, rest, and love. I was untangled from fear, abandonment, and performance. I didn't even know how bound I was until I felt the freedom. I will never shrink again."
— Sharisa S., Kingdom Lounge Member"I'm sure Christina never imagined the magnitude of her obedience in creating this space. All the hurt and pain had to happen to bring me here. God was reminding me of the things I deserve. Kingdom Lounge is a birthing space."
— Ericka M., Kingdom Lounge Member"The moment I spoke it in prayer the water works just started flowing. It felt like relief, sorrow, pain, and healing all at the same time. This is a holy release."
— Jenny G., Kingdom Lounge Member"I went into court and told God to please work in my favor. The judge granted my request and said my certificate will be in the mail in 30 days. The favor of God is real. This has been a real life changer for me."
— Maureen D., Kingdom Lounge MemberEverything you need to know
before you say yes.
You've been waiting to feel
like yourself again.
It starts here.
You've spent time, energy, tears, and sleepless nights trying to get through this alone. Imagine having someone in your corner, every single day, for 30 days. That is what Becoming is.
"I spent two years in counseling trying to heal. In two months of walking with Christina I experienced the breakthroughs I had been praying for. She walks with you through it."
— Kingdom Lounge Member"You don't have to have it all figured out. You just have to be willing to walk through and trust that you won't walk through alone."
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