You don't need to get over him.
You need to get to yourself.
Becoming is a private 30-day container where I walk with you through heartbreak. Not around it. Out the other side. As the woman you were always created to be. Not just healed. Not just "over it." Whole.
I spent two years in counseling trying to heal. In two months of walking with Christina I experienced the breakthroughs I had been praying for. She's lived this. She doesn't talk at you. She walks with you through it.Kingdom Lounge Member
Sis, let me tell you what I see.
It's 2am and you're not asleep. You're replaying it. Every conversation. Every text. The moment everything shifted. You're turning it over in your mind trying to find the thing you missed. The thing that, if you'd just done differently, would have changed the outcome.
You've been strong for everybody around you. Your kids. Your job. The people at church who think you're fine. Nobody knows what happens when you close the bedroom door at night and the weight of this lands back on your chest.
You've prayed. You've fasted. You've filled up journals. You know what the Word says about your worth. You can say all the right things. But knowing it in your head and feeling it in your body are two completely different things. And right now, you can't feel it.
Some days you want him back. Some days you just want peace. Most days you don't even know what to pray for because you're not sure what you want anymore. Except that you want to feel like yourself again.
And the hardest part? You don't even know who that is anymore. You lost her somewhere inside of that relationship. And you're not sure how to find her.
If even one of those sentences stopped you. This was written for you.
You've tried. I need you to know that I see that.
You went to counseling. Maybe for months. Maybe for years. The therapist was kind. She gave you tools. She helped you process. But something kept feeling like it was missing. Like you were talking about the pain without ever getting underneath it. Like you were learning to manage the wound instead of actually healing it.
Your people tried to help. They listened. They prayed with you. They told you that God has someone better, that you deserve more, that it's time to move on. And every time someone said that you smiled and nodded and felt more alone. Because they don't understand. They don't understand why you can't just let go. They don't understand why, six months later, you still check his page. They don't understand that what you feel for this person is REAL. And the shame of still loving him is almost worse than the heartbreak itself.
So you stopped talking about it. You started performing okay. You got up, you showed up, you kept moving. And you carried this privately. Because you got tired of watching people get tired of hearing about it.
And the content? You've consumed it. The videos. The podcasts. The books about healing and letting go. Some of it helped for a day or two. Then the algorithm showed you his face, or a song came on, or you woke up at 3am and it was all right back where you left it.
Here's what nobody is saying:
The reason none of it fully worked is not because you are broken. It is not because your faith isn't strong enough. It is not because you love too much or care too deeply.
It's because healing without identity work leaves you vulnerable to repeating the exact same cycle.
You can process the pain of this relationship for years and never touch the question underneath it: who are you when he is not in the picture?
That is the work nobody has walked you through. Yet.
The Father is not punishing you.
He is building you.
In real time, in the middle of the very thing that feels like it is breaking you. And the woman He is building? She is the whole point.
Not the relationship. Not the reconciliation. Not the closure you've been waiting on him to give you.
You.Becoming
The private 30-day container that walks you all the way through heartbreak and out the other side as the woman you were always created to be.
This is not a course. There are no modules to binge on your own timeline. This is a private, hands-on, Spirit-led container built entirely around you. Your situation, your specific wounds, your specific season.
Yes, I'm Ready. Take Me In.Every part of this was built
so you have somewhere to bring it.
Three Private 1:1 Calls with Christina
We start with an opening call where I meet you exactly where you are. Not where you think you should be. Right where you are. From that first conversation I get clear on what's specifically coming up for you. The patterns, the wounds, the places you're stuck. So every call after that is built around your situation, not a generic script.
A mid-point call to work through what's been surfacing. And a closing call that marks the moment. Who you are now, what you've shed, what you're stepping into.
These are not coaching calls in the traditional sense. They are Spirit-led conversations designed around you, your story, and what the Father is doing in this specific season of your life.
Value: $750
Direct Messaging Support, Monday through Friday
Every weekday for 30 days you have direct access to me.
When the 2am thoughts come. When you're about to make a decision from a broken place and you need someone to help you see clearly before you do. When something surfaces between our calls that you don't know how to carry alone.
You have somewhere to bring it. I am there.
This is where the real work happens. Not in the scheduled calls. In the in-between moments, the daily conversations, the steady presence of someone who actually understands what you're carrying and won't get tired of hearing about it.
Value: $600
Full Kingdom Lounge Premium Access
For the entire 30 days you'll have complete access to Kingdom Lounge Premium.
You'll be held by a community of women who understand exactly what you're walking through. Surrounded by teaching and content that speaks directly to this season. Supported even in the moments between our calls.
You are not doing this alone. Not for a single day of it.
Value: $97/month
Every week has a purpose.
You are not just moving through time. You are moving through a designed journey. Each week is built around what naturally surfaces when a woman is walking through heartbreak. So you are never lost inside of it.
No bypassing. No performing "I'm fine." This week you are given full permission to grieve in a safe, held, private container. Everything you have been carrying alone finally has somewhere to land.
We go deeper than the heartbreak. Into the identity wounds, the old agreements about your worth, the patterns that were living inside of you long before he arrived. This is where real work begins. Not the surface pain. The root of it.
You release what was never yours to carry. The shame. The agreements you made in the dark about who you are and what you deserve. Week three is about coming out of agreement with every lie heartbreak has spoken over your identity and choosing truth instead.
You meet the woman who has been waiting on the other side of all of this. Grounded. Clear. Peaceful. Whole. By the end of week four you are not the same woman who walked in. And you will know it.
This is what becomes possible.
When you stop waiting for him to make you whole and decide to walk through instead of around.
- You wake up with a peace that has nothing to do with whether he texted
- You know who you are outside of that relationship. And you are not afraid of her
- You have clarity about your person and your path that no longer keeps you up at night
- You stopped agreeing with the lies and started speaking life over yourself
- You hear from God again. Because you learned to sit in the quiet and receive
- You are the main character of your own life. Not the supporting role in someone else's story.
- Joy belongs to you now. Not something you're waiting for someone else to give you.
- You are grounded, settled, and fully ready for whatever comes next.
This is for you if...
- You are in the middle of heartbreak and you need real, private support. Not generic advice or content to consume alone
- You are ready to do the actual work, not just talk about healing
- Your faith is important to you and you want to walk through this season led by the Holy Spirit, not just your feelings
- You are tired of performing okay while privately falling apart
- You want to know who you are outside of this relationship. And you are ready to go find her
- Something in you knows there is more on the other side of this, and you are done waiting to go get it
This is not for you if...
- You are looking for someone to help you get him back. That is not what we are doing here
- You are not willing to show up fully and consistently for 30 days
- You are not open to a faith-based, Holy Spirit-led approach to this season
- You want to passively consume content without doing the inner work
From the Kingdom Lounge community.
I spent two years in counseling trying to heal. In two months of walking with Christina I experienced the breakthroughs I had been praying for. Not because therapy failed me. But because this time I wasn't just processing the pain. I was releasing it. She's lived this. She doesn't talk at you. She walks with you through it.
Kingdom Lounge MemberI had a whole two-hour session with Christina and I was amazed at how the layers were pulled back. The space she creates is not overpowering. The questions make you really sit with intention and think. I almost called out of work just to go through it again. Much needed space.
Shikesha F. · Kingdom Lounge MemberThis was deep and eye opening and it almost felt like I was re-birthed. I've been cheating myself for years. It's life changing. Can't nobody love or do me like my Father God.
Tanee H. · Kingdom Lounge MemberOver five days God didn't just meet me. He delivered me softly. Not through shouting, but through truth, rest, and love. I was untangled from fear, abandonment, and performance. I didn't even know how bound I was until I felt the freedom. I will never shrink again.
Sharisa S. · Kingdom Lounge MemberI think I am finally learning how to surrender to the process and not fight it. I feel so much more at peace navigating through this, being led by the Spirit instead of trying to do things in my own strength. What God is doing here is bigger than healing from heartbreak.
Kingdom Lounge MemberReady to stop going through this alone?
Three founding spots. One private container. Thirty days that change everything.
I'm Ready to Stop Going Through This Alone
Hi, I'm Christina.
I didn't teach this. I lived it.I am the blueprint. Not because I had it all together. Because I walked through it with the Father and came out the other side with the fruit to show for it.
When my own heartbreak hit, I had a choice. Wait for the pain to pass. Or become.
God told me His daughters needed me. So in the middle of the hurt, I started. I showed up. I launched a challenge. I built The Kingdom Lounge from nothing into a community of over 4,000 sisters. I grew to over 16,000 followers on TikTok. I did all of it while quietly walking through my own breaking point.
What I discovered in that season was not just healing. It was the Holy Spirit walking me through every single step. When to speak. When to be still. When to forgive. When to stay. When to let go. Every step was led. Every step built me into exactly who I needed to be.
That is the exact journey I am going to walk you through. Not theory. Not a program I built from research. A Spirit-led, deeply personal 30 days that mirrors the same path I walked myself.
And it changed everything.
Christina Ciara
Everything you need to know
before you say yes.
What happens after I purchase?
Once you complete your purchase, I will reach out to you personally to schedule your opening call. You will receive access to Kingdom Lounge Premium right away and your direct messaging support begins at the start of your 30-day container. Everything is private and personal.
What if I'm not sure I'm ready?
If you're asking that question, you are probably more ready than you think. You don't have to have it figured out. You don't have to be in a good place. You just have to be willing to walk through and trust that you won't walk through alone. This container meets you exactly where you are. Even if that's on the floor.
I've tried therapy and other things and I'm still here. What makes this different?
Most programs give you content to consume on your own timeline. This is not content. This is a private container with daily access to someone who has personally walked this exact path. What surfaces in YOUR specific heartbreak gets addressed specifically. I am not reading from a script. I am Spirit-led, present, and have lived proof that this journey is possible.
Is this faith-based?
Yes. Fully. This container is deeply rooted in faith, the Word, and being Spirit-led. If faith is central to your life and you want to walk through this season in step with the Holy Spirit. Not just your feelings or someone else's framework. This is for you.
What if I'm still in the relationship?
You don't have to be fully out of the relationship to need this container. Heartbreak is heartbreak. Whether you're separated, broken up, or in a relationship that is causing you pain right now. This is about you becoming whole, regardless of where things currently stand with your person. Meet yourself where you are.
What is your refund policy?
Because of the deeply personal and hands-on nature of this container, including private calls and daily direct access to me for 30 days, all sales are final. This is not a course you can return. It is a private investment in your own becoming. Please read everything carefully and reach out with any questions before you purchase.
You've been waiting to feel like yourself again.
It starts here.
- 3 Private 1:1 Calls with Christina $750 value
- Direct Messaging Support, Mon - Fri $600 value
- Kingdom Lounge Premium Access $97 value
Or split into 2 payments of $499
Only 3 founding spots available. Price increases after this round.
I came in not even knowing what I needed. I just knew I was tired of carrying it alone. By the time we were done I had language for things I had been feeling for years and could not explain. Something shifted that I had been praying would shift for a long time.Kingdom Lounge Member
You have been going through this alone
long enough.
You've been strong. You've been faithful. You've kept showing up. And you are still carrying this. In the quiet, in the dark, in the moments no one else sees.
Thirty days from now, you could still be where you are. Replaying. Waiting. Performing okay.
Or you could be the woman who walked through it. Who knows who she is. Who woke up one morning and felt it. Actually felt the peace she had only been able to name before.
That is what Becoming is for.
Only 3 founding spots available. Price increases after this round. If you read this whole page, something in you already knows. When you're ready, come in.
A note on investment
Because of the deeply personal nature of this container, including private 1:1 calls and daily direct access to me for 30 days, all sales are final. This is not a course you purchase and return. It is a private investment in your own becoming. If you have questions before you purchase, reach out. I would rather you ask than sit on the fence.
You don't have to have it all figured out. You just have to be willing to walk through.